Patterns and universals of mate poaching across 53 nations: the effects of sex, culture, and personality on romantically attracting another person's partner
Date Issued
2004-01-01
Author(s)
Schmitt, David P.
Alcalay, Lidia
Allik, Jüri
Angleitner, Alois
Ault, Lara
Austers, Ivars
Bennett, Kevin L.
Bianchi, Gabriel
Boholst, Fredrick
Borg Cunen, Mary Ann
Braeckman, Johan
Brainerd, Edwin G.
Caral, Leo Gerard A.
Caron, Gabrielle
Casullo, Maria Martina
Cunningham, Michael
Daibo, Ikuo
De Backer, Charlotte
De Souza, Eros
Diaz-Loving, Rolando
Diniz, Gláucia
Durkin, Kevin
Echegaray, Marcela
Eremsoy, Ekin
Euler, Harald A.
Falzon, Ruth
Fisher, Maryanne L.
Foley, Dolores
Fry, Douglas P.
Fry, Sirpa
Ghayur, M. Arif
Golden, Debra L.
Grammer, Karl
Grimaldi, Liria
Halberstadt, Jamin
Haque, Shamsul
Herrera, Dora
Hertel, Janine
Hoffmann, Heather
Hooper, Danica
Hradilekova, Zuzana
Hudek-Kene-evi, Jasna
Jaafar, Jas
Jankauskaite, Margarita
Kabangu-Stahel, Heidel
Kardum, Igor
Khoury, Brigitte
Kwon, Hayrran
Laidra, Kaia
Laireiter, Anton-Rupert
Lakerveld, Dustin
Lampert, Ada
Lauri, Maryanne
Lavallée, Marguerite
Lee, Suk-Jae
Leung, Luk Chung
Locke, Kenneth D.
Locke, Vance
Luksik, Ivan
Magaisa, Ishmael
Marcinkeviciene, Dalia
Mata, André
McCarthy, Barry
Mills, Michael E.
Mkhize, Nhlanhla J.
Moreira, João
Moreira, Sérgio
Moya, Miguel
Munyae, M.
Noller, Patricia
Opre, Adrian
Panayiotou, Alexia
Petrovic, Nebojsa
Poels, Karolien
Popper, Miroslav
Poulimenou, Maria
P'yatokha, Volodymr
Raymond, Michel
Reips, Ulf-Dietrich
Reneau, Susan E.
Rivera-Aragon, Sofia
Rowatt, Wade C.
Ruch, Willibald
Rus, Velko S.
Safir, Marilyn P.
Salas, Sonia
Sambataro, Fabio
Sandnabba, Kenneth N.
Schulmeyer, Marion K.
Schütz, Astrid
Scrimali, Tullio
Shackelford, Todd K.
Shaver, Phillip R.
Sichona, Francis
Simonetti, Franco
Sineshaw, Tilahun
Sookdew, R.
Speelman, Tom
Spyrou, Spyros
Sümer, H. Canan
Sümer, Nebi
Supekova, Marianna
Szlendak, Tomasz
Timmermans, Bert
Tooke, William
Tsaousis, Ioannis
Tungaraza, F. S. K.
van Overwalle, Frank
Vandermassen, Griet
Vanhoomissen, Tim
Vanwesenbeeck, Ine
Vasey, Paul L.
Verissimo, João
Voracek, Martin
Wan, Wendy W. N.
Wang, Ta-Wei
Weiss, Peter
Wijaya, Andik
Woertman, Liesbeth
Youn, Gahyun
Zupanèiè, Agata
International, Sexuality Description Project
DOI
10.1037/0022-3514.86.4.560
Abstract
As part of the International Sexuality Description Project, 16,954 participants from 53 nations were administered an anonymous survey about experiences with romantic attraction. Mate poaching--romantically attracting someone who is already in a relationship--was most common in Southern Europe, South America, Western Europe, and Eastern Europe and was relatively infrequent in Africa, South/Southeast Asia, and East Asia. Evolutionary and social-role hypotheses received empirical support. Men were more likely than women to report having made and succumbed to short-term poaching across all regions, but differences between men and women were often smaller in more gender-egalitarian regions. People who try to steal another's mate possess similar personality traits across all regions, as do those who frequently receive and succumb to the poaching attempts by others. The authors conclude that human mate-poaching experiences are universally linked to sex, culture, and the robust influence of personal dispositions.